In a home where there is an autistic child, love still grows. There’s still a family. There’s still laughter and struggles. And sometimes, there’s also brothers and sisters. If you are the parent of an autistic child and need help dealing with the child’s other siblings when it comes to the challenges presented by autism, try considering some of these strategies.

First of all, remind your children that they are not alone and that every family faces challenges. Autism is a very real challenge for some families in a variety of ways, sometimes financially, other times physically. Challenges associated with autism will vary and can change as time goes on. Make sure that your children are aware that they are not alone on this journey.

Also, encourage your children to be proud of an autistic sibling! Talk to your children openly and make questions about autism feel comfortable. Discuss different matters and try to help your family understand the way that autism works and how it impacts your family. Keep the conversation open and flowing. Explain the nature of what is going on within your family. Moreover, empower your children to discuss autism openly and to not feel embarrassed. Love comes in all shapes in sizes, especially within a family.

Let your child know that it’s okay to feel sad or angry sometimes over the situation, however, remind your child that feeling upset over having an autistic brother or sister doesn’t change the situation; it only makes things feel unhappier. Seek out professional counseling if you feel your child needs something more to deal with the challenge of autism within the home. It’s okay to seek out help when you or your child needs it.

Finally, above all things, encourage love and understanding within your home. Spend time with all of your children both together and individually. Your bonds will only strengthen!