Desperate Times Part Two: by Bonnie Arnwine

As I mentioned in my last post I had a tough time dealing with my sons infatuation with Wario. It’s common for people on the spectrum to become highly interested in one subject. Unfortunately, this subject dealt with passing gas and was causing the whole family problems.
When I shared my plan to use positive reinforcement with a friend they accused me of bribing my son. However, what works for typical kids many times doesn’t work for kids on the spectrum. Typically developing kids pay attention to social cues and norms and change their behaviors accordingly. This often doesn’t work for kids on the spectrum.
Positive reinforcement is a tool to reinforce good behavior and eliminate bad behavior. Typically you reward the behavior you want to see more of, which over times leads to a permanent change in behavior. Changing behavior through positive reinforcement isn’t always as easy as it sounds. For example, at first I told my son that if he went through the day without passing gas or burping in the presence of others I would give him a dollar.
Sounds good, doesn’t it? However, this caused a problem because once my son failed, he went back to his Wario ways for the rest of the day. He figured he had nothing to lose and so the day turned into an all out Wario, passing gas frenzy. Oh my dear friends, you just don’t know how badly I wanted to escape this! Sometimes our kid’s behavior can be so embarrassing!
What I have learned from experiences like these is that sometimes you have to modify your plan. As a matter of fact I often have to modify my behavioral plans. So don’t give up if you don’t succeed the first time you try to change a negative behavior.
Next we decided that if G. could make it for an hour without passing gas in the presence of others he earned a quarter. I also wrote a short social story about passing gas and read it to him. This I shared with him trying to be stern as he laughed like crazy. Finally, we took away all reinforcement of his negative behavior, this meant that every time he passed gas we completely ignored it. This was hard but we had to do it because our response was making his behavior fun.
It took some time but this phase finally passed. No pun intended!






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